Coming Home...
A personalized program to help introverted women over 40 fall in love with their lives and feel excited about the next chapter filled with deep connections, soulful purpose, and thrilling adventures!
(It's about finally coming home to who secretly wish you could be!)
“I feel like my life has just been a series of ‘good enoughs’!”
A good enough relationship with your partner.
But you’d never admit that you sometimes wonder if you should’ve held out for the one that got away.
A good enough job that pays the bills (and provides insurance!).
But where you have to slide the mask over your face every morning before you walk through the front door.
A good enough home, in a good enough neighborhood.
But you’re sick of the tiny bathroom, lack of storage, and the amount of traffic you have to sit in every day.
Now that you’re over 40, you’re starting to question if “good enough” is enough.
You realize you want a lot more than just “good enough.”
Especially now that the kids have moved out, you’ve licked the wounds from your divorce, or you’ve made peace with being laid off.
But, you’ve trained yourself to accept (and be grateful for!) the "good enoughs"…the bare minimum.
So these new rumblings just beneath the surface calling for “more”, understandably, feels unsettling and scary!
It's time to stop telling yourself that the job you hate, the relationship that sets your teeth on edge, or the reflection in the mirror that you try to avoid seeing is “good enough.”
It’s okay to want more.
You’re not selfish, foolish, weird, crazy, or too old.
It’s a natural response to entering a new phase of life - everyone feels it, but only a few answer that inner call to do something about it.
You are that person.
You want more than “good enough”, and it’s not too late to change directions and go out and get it.
Deep down, you yearn for more…
You want to feel more purpose in your life, deeper connections with like-minded souls, and the thrill of finally coming back to life!
The love story that ends all love stories.
Professional achievements that allow you to fall asleep at night knowing you’ve done something meaningful with your day.
A circle of close friends that get your quirky sense of humor, support you, and uplift you.
To feel a sense of adventure that reignites the free spirit you used to be (or always wished you could be!)
The home that becomes your beautiful, calm, and peaceful sanctuary.
This (and more!) is ALL available to you!
You want to feel seen, heard, and valued for who you truly are...
not just for the roles you've played in the past.
And, as an introvert - it starts by accepting yourself and capitalizing on the unique gifts already available within you to create the MORE you desire!
But, it means you have to remove all the old identities that make you believe you can’t create this, aren’t worthy of receiving it, or that it’s too late to experience any of it.
Vicky, in her patient, thoughtful, intuitive way, works with me to pull out the truth of whatever I’m struggling with (which is usually not what I think I’m struggling with!), and she helps me reach insights that have alluded me for years.
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With Vicky, I’ve found such a deep clarity on what truly resonates with me. As a result, I'm able to show up as myself, in the ways that work for me, and with ease that I never thought possible.
Working with Vicky has made something that always felt tough for me, putting myself out there, seem aligned and simple. If you have the opportunity to work with Vicky, hop on it…quickly.
"I’m too young to be old, and I’m too old to be young."
Evelyn Couch, Fried Green Tomatoes
When I first started working with Vicky, I felt like a hamster on a wheel. I didn't feel inspired, or creative. I felt LOST. Something was missing - I needed to find my purpose in life, have more fun, and learn to simply enjoy the moment.
Working with Vicky allowed me to change my perspective and discover who I am now. I’ve learned to create a new reality!
This is about defining a new, better fitting, identity for yourself…
Your identity will change many times throughout your life because your life changes.
You’re being called to connect with the version of you that creates the life, relationships, career, friendships, home, and experiences that go way beyond “good enough.”
This is what Coming Home is all about.
In Coming Home, I’ll help you…
PILLAR 1: PURPOSE
Find a deep purpose, giving you fulfillment, meaning, and joy in your daily life.
PILLAR 2: CONNECTION
Cultivate a strong connection with those in your life + create the social circle, romantic relationship, or professional network your crave.
PILLAR 3: ADVENTURE
Define adventure on your own terms to reconnect to the free spirit you used to be (or always wished to be).
How do we do this?
BUILD A SOLID FOUNDATION
We'll spend some time building a strong foundation for growth by getting clear on what it is that you truly want if there were ZERO limitations (not what you think you’re supposed to want), and identifying your values, because that drives everything!
REWIRE YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM
Throughout our time together, we'll rewire your belief system so you understand the default patterns that keep you disconnected from your desires, and so you know exactly how to create the thoughts and beliefs that propel you forward (tapping into a deep well of confidence that you didn’t know existed inside of you!).
ACTIVATE YOUR INNER "WILD ONE"
You'll learn how to activate your inner “Wild One” (this is what I call that essence and soul buried deep within you) so that you begin trusting yourself, listening to yourself, and utilizing your own inner guidance system so you follow the path that gets you on the other side of all of your current fears, doubts, and perceived limitations.
FALL IN LOVE WITH TRIAL & ERROR
Learning to love trial and error is the gamechanger because it is the only way to build a new reality for yourself. As you define the parameters of your new identity, you can’t think your way to it. You have to actively live, try, and play to feel what’s right for you. Your body will ALWAYS tell you (and you’ll learn how to feel this too!).
Coming Home is a 6-month 1:1 coaching partnership...
We’ll meet weekly for a 60-minute session for the 1st 4 months, then biweekly (i.e., 2x / month) for months 5 and 6 (to give you space to play with flying solo, but with me still by your side!).
$4,050
(or $675/month for 6 months*)
*Longer payment plans are available, if preferred.
To get started, submit an application by clicking the button below!
Eager to move this along even faster? Skip the application and book an exploration call with me so we can explore if this is the right fit for you!
Vicky has a vested interest in seeing women succeed. She devotes her time, energy, and talents to pushing women forward. She’s very encouraging - whenever I need a kind word, she provides a kind but balanced view. She’s also a great cheerleader and knows how to inspire people.
I’d recommend anyone to work with Vicky because she sees things through and will stick with them until they get where they want to go.
Hi, I'm Vicky...
I'm a Certified Professional Coach, Professional Listener, and an expert at helping you think in ways that you never imagined!
I know what you’re going through, my friend.
I spent the first part of my 40s feeling lost, stuck, and uncertain how to make the changes I desperately knew I needed to make.
I spent the last few years of my 40s rebuilding my life after getting laid off from a company I’d been loyal to for 23 years.
I know the loneliness, the doubt, and the panic that comes from the 3:00 am swirl of thoughts that paint everything in a film of doom and gloom.
I know what it’s like to have followed all the rules, doing everything that’s expected, only to feel the crushing realization that you no longer feel like you fit your own skin anymore.
I know how hard it is to want to take steps to create the life you dream of, but no matter how hard you try, you can’t seem to make it your reality (even a smidge of it!).
Your fears and discomfort are valid, and you are not alone.
I know I used to think I couldn’t change who I am, and I bet you’re thinking something similar.
But, it’s not true! You have the power and creativity to completely rewrite your identity to fit who you’re becoming.
Like you, I’m an introvert (a proud, hardcore one at that!), and I’m proof that you can reinvent your life after 40, without it requiring an extreme makeover!
You can rewire your brain and change your belief system. And it’s exactly what we’ll do together in Coming Home.
During Coming Home, you’ll learn to…
Gain clarity on your values, goals, and aspirations to experience greater purpose, intentionality, and freedom in decision-making.
Cultivate self-awareness and self-acceptance, leading to inner peace and self-love.
Develop stronger self-esteem and confidence, empowering you to pursue new challenges and relationships.
Improve communication skills to express your needs and boundaries while honoring your introverted nature.
Build resilience and coping strategies to navigate future life transitions with ease and grace.
Embrace a growth mindset and the courage to step out of your comfort zone, exploring new passions and opportunities.
Here’s what that next chapter could look like…
What I love about working with Vicky is her ability to listen. She hears what I’m conveying even when the words aren’t matching my intentions.
She challenges my thought process in a nurturing and supportive way and brings a fresh perspective to any given situation so that I can see situations from all angles and come to the best decision for me.
She has a strong sense of integrity that makes her trustworthy, and I appreciate her common-sense logic.
But, change is hard!
It's natural to…
Fear judgment from loved ones who don’t understand your situation, leaving you hiding behind a fake smile and “Everything’s fine!” and they share unwanted (but well-meaning) advice.
Feel isolated, thinking you’re the only one struggling while others seem to have it all figured out (and wondering “What’s wrong with me?!”).
Second-guess whether you're good enough to pursue your “next chapter” dreams (even though you can’t stop thinking about it!)
Worry that midlife is too late for change, worried others will think you’re "crazy" or “irresponsible” (but then judging yourself for wasting time staying stuck)
Cling to an unfulfilling life, believing it’s safer than braving the unknown (because at least you know what to expect!)
You might be stuck in a pattern of negative self-talk, so when you’re scrolling on your phone while in the waiting room at your doctor’s office, and you see an ad for an opportunity that instantly feels exciting, you squash it down because your mind starts whispering things like “I’m too old.", "I could never do that.", "I’m too awkward and quiet.", or "I’m not outgoing enough.".
And once again, you miss a chance to change your life.
Vicky is an amazing life coach. She is intuitive, professional, experienced, respectful, and so much fun to work with! I can only recommend her.
Vicky has a skill in making the session comfortable and inviting as you drop into hearing what your inner voice has to say. She is patient, and I never felt rushed.
Here's the truth...Your introversion is a source of strength, and it's never too late to reinvent yourself.
It's time to silence that judgy, mean, and persistent inner critic and start believing that you deserve to live life on your own terms!
Because no one gets to define your happiness but you!
You've made it this far!
You may not believe it (yet!), but you're stronger and more resilient than you give yourself credit for.
"Vicky gives introverts permission to love how they want to live. We don't have to force ourselves into the extrovert way of life. You can be interesting AND an introvert! I worked with Vicky on my mindset about accepting that, as an introvert, it is okay to be careful with whom I allow into my life. I needed help with my professional relationships, but I'll also apply her tools in my personal life.
She actively listens, gives actionable tools, & challenges mindsets that don't serve you. She's kind & straightforward, which is what I've been looking for in a coach. I now feel like networking and gaining business buddies is not as hopeless as it felt prior to meeting Vicky. I can't wait to continue working with her!"
- Cassi -
"Vicky is a great coach, super personable and engaging! She listens to me very well and has a unique way of asking the right questions at the right time."
"Vicky is very inspiring to work with!"
"Vicky is so easy and wonderful to talk to. I feel so much better after every session!"
"I love the amazing support that Vicky offers me to help me understand myself better and to be a better person!"
"I love Vicky a lot! We get along very well and am excited to form a partnership with her."
"Vicky is so attentive to everything I say, remembers things from our previous session, and really helps me think about things deeper!"
"Every session is great with Vicky! I am learning so much and feel more confidence in just a few sessions."
"I look forward to every session with Vicky!"
"Vicky has truly helped me improve in all of the 5 pillars! Very much enjoying my sessions with her!"
"Always love my sessions with Vicky!"
Here’s what that next chapter could look like…
You follow that inner spark and sign up for local art classes, discovering a new passion and creative outlet that fills you with joy and fulfillment.
You start a personal project (like writing a memoir or starting a podcast), giving you a platform to share your unique perspectives and stories with the world.
You become more mindful of your thoughts and emotions, learning to reframe negative self-talk and cultivate a more positive outlook on life, which allows you to enjoy every ounce of your life.
After years of staying in an unfulfilling marriage, you finally gather the courage to file for divorce, opening up the space to move on and find a more loving, supportive partner.
Inspired by your newfound confidence, you ditch your corporate job to start your own small business, turning a lifelong dream into a reality.
After being single for years, you decide to join a dating app, eventually meeting a partner who shares your values and interests.
After realizing that your current career no longer aligns with your values, you train in a new field and eventually land a job where you feel fulfilled.
After living in the same city for decades, you decide to relocate to a place that better fits your desired lifestyle, whether it's closer to nature, a vibrant city, or a more laid-back coastal town.
The beauty of reinventing yourself in midlife is that you have a LIFETIME of experiences and wisdom to pull from. This isn’t starting over. It’s COMING HOME to what’s already there within you.
"I've searched for the answers in self-help books, podcasts, and well-meaning advice from my friends and family, but I still can't figure out how to change what hasn't been working in my life!"
You may have even exhausted your toolkit of what's always worked for getting yourself out of your funk - journaling, meditating, going for a run, etc. - but it's not working for you like it used to and you don't know why.
You deserve to feel empowered to fight for what you want, inspired to choose what sparks your curiosity, and confident to reject what no longer fits who you are now, and the woman you long to be.
And the best part?
You don't have to navigate this journey alone.
Got questions?
What if I'm not sure if this is right for me?
It's a big decision to decide to work with a coach, so I totally understand that you may have some questions!
This is why I only accept clients into the program after we meet on a 60-minute call where I get to know a little more about you, and vice versa. It also gives you the opportunity to ask the questions you need the answers to in order to decide if this is the right fit.
And don't worry! This is a no-obligation, no-pressure opportunity for us to decide if it makes sense to move forward and work together. 😊
Are there other payment plans besides 6 months?
Yes! Book a call with me, and we can discuss your specific needs.
Is there any guarantee as to what I'll achieve in 6 months?
As a coach, it's unethical to guarantee a specific result because the primary factor in your results is what you put into the program. Think about it like this...if you hired a coach at the gym and they guaranteed you would lose 20 pounds in 3 months, but you didn't change your eating habits, sat on the couch all the time, and didn't push yourself in the workouts with your coach, how likely would it be that you'd lose those 20 pounds? Not likely! Even if the coach brought their A+ game, if you choose to not put in the effort and be willing to get uncomfortable to welcome in the changes you desire, the guarantee won't get you the results.
What I can guarantee is that I show up fully committed to helping you navigate those barriers that might make you want to not give it your all, so you achieve what you desire.
This sounds exactly like what I need! How do I get started?
Yay! That makes me so happy! To get started, you can choose whether to start by submitting an application with me (excellent if you like to be able to think through your answers!), or jump right to the 60-minute call so we can explore what you'd like to work on and get to know each other a little bit so we can confirm it makes sense to work together. If so, then I'll share next steps with you on the call!
If you start by submitting an application first, if I feel we may be a good fit, I'll reach out with the link for us to schedule a Zoom call together so we can discuss options.
Is there a refund policy if I change my mind?
My goal is for you to not want to stop working together! Given the nature of coaching, I cannot provide refunds, but in the unlikely event that you wish to not continue, I'll work with you to ensure you're satisfied (in 9 years of coaching, I've never had anyone want to quit working together, or ask for a refund!).
